Revelation

I thought she's grabbing this opportunity (of being single) to be a better person and get mature. But I was wrong, she's still the same. Doing the same mistakes. And it's a choice, not a mistake anymore. She still flirts with the guys who like her. And they all think that Cha likes them back. Cha seems like playing everyone's feelings. This is not the type of woman I wanna marry. I told her I no longer wait for her to be ready again for a relationship or commitment. I will just wait for the day I can see her grow up and be a respectable woman. I told her I don't wanna be in a relationship with a woman who acts like a girl and just plays around. A girl who is immature, liar, disloyal, and unfaithful. I'd better be alone than waste my time to girls. If there are countless of men dying to be with her or dying for their love to be reciprocated, then let them be. I won't spare a single sweat to win her heart anymore. I'm just lucky I know Cha more than them. And though how many times I give advice to her, they are all empty words without actions. Cha is lucky I am one of the few people in her life who has deep concern to her. If she couldn't see that, then well, it's her loss. I wouldn't let myself get killed in a battle where a woman being fought at is a flirt or immature person. I'd rather be her concerned friend than her romantic partner. I love my heart.

Now, Cha is a no-no for me. It's a big time turn off. Person who is fond of telling lies turn me off. Moreover, people who flirt everyone is a major turn off.

Thank you God. I can now finally say that this is a blessing in disguise. This breakup taught me many things and made me see more things I haven't seen before. You really wanted me not to end up with a girl or immature woman. You really do love me and care for me. 😊

Still, I care for Cha - not romantically but a concerned family/friend. If this is really her, fond of telling lies and flirting with everyone, I can no longer do anything about it. But one thing for isure, she has failed big time as my possible future wife. As a family, I am still here whenever she needs a friend. ☺️ She was put in my life for a reason - maybe for me to learn and also to guide her or teach her lessons.

Every little thing happened in our life has a reason.