Goals

Personal Goals
Furbabies vaccine completion - In-progress (Target Oct 2020)
Master in Management completion in APC - In-progress (Target Nov 2021)
Master of Project Management / Master of Project and Program Management admission in UoS - Planned (Winter 2021)
PP's B&B Inn Lot - Planned (Target June 2021)

Travel Goals
Batanes, Australia, Iceland, Switzerland, Finland, Italy, Netherlands, Germany, Denmark, Sweden, Russia

"Focus on your goals."

I can do all things thru Christ who strengthens me. -Philippians 4:13

Thursday, September 03, 2020

What a great way to start a morning 😆



Sana magdilang anghel ate ko. 😄 Kahit dun muna tayo sa "taong magmamahal". Hahaha!

On the other hand, di ko kailangan magmadali. I believe na there's one person out of 2 billion people here on Earth na nakatadhana satin. And God will make a way for us to meet that destined person no matter what happen and no matter which path we go.

Why I believe that? Because when I met Cha again, it's destiny. ^_^ And she’s still an important person in my life, a family and a little sister. ☺️ If lovelife, she has no problem. Mamili nalang sya sa mga nagkakagusto sa kanya. Hahaha!



Someone who made me realize some things

I admit, I had mistakes. I eventually said sorry to Cha.

This friend told me things na hindi ko naman nakkwento sa kanya. Maybe because magaling sya makabasa ng tao. And she made me realize some things.

"Di kapa maka-move on sa ex mo."

Yes, hindi pa ko nakaka move-on kay Cha. I don't know how and when. I believe on her so much that I wanted to have an honest conversation with her.

"Hangga't may trust issue ka, hindi ka makakakita ng forever mo."

If I really have trust issues, ba't lagi ako nabubudul budol at naloloko? I believe so much sa goodness ng human beings. I even disregard someone's past when I love someone. Her history will be my lessons to be a better partner for her. At I admit na I plan too much of the future that I don't give any chance to my partner to think and decide on her own life. It was my flaw and my mistake. And I don't want it to happen again if I really wanted to meet my "till death do us part" partner. I've learned that outside our world (romantic relationship), there are other worlds and relationships (friends and family).

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I have already accepted everything. And with His help, I am healing and already moving on. 😊 Naniniwala naman ako na yung taong nakatadhana sakin, kahit saang directions pa kami mapunta, magkikita at magkikita din kami. 

Pero bago yun, kelangan mayaman na ko at may sariling bahay na. At probably, meron na kong 100k spare cash to buy an engagement ring. Haha!

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Nothing is impossible with Him. =D

A Sure Way Of Making Enemies - And How to Avoid It

If you can't be sure of being right even 55 percent of the time, why should you tell other people they are wrong?

Never begin by announcing "I am going to prove so-and-so to you." That's bad. That's tantamount to saying, "I'm smarter that you are. I'm going to tell you a thing or two and make you change your mind."

If you are going to prove anything, don't let anybody know it. Do it so subtly , so adroitly, that no one will feel that you are doing it.

"You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him to find it within himself." - Galileo

"I may be wrong. I frequently am. Let's examine the facts."

You will never get into trouble by admitting that you may be wrong. That will stop all argument and inspire your opponent to be just as fair and open and broadminded as you are. It will make him want to admit that be, too, may be wrong.

When we are wrong , we may admit it to ourselves. And if we are handled gently and tactfully, we may admit it to others and even take pride in our frankness and broad-mindedness. 

"I am convinced now that nothing good is accomplished and a lot of damage can be done if you tell a person straight out that he or she is wrong. You only succeed in stripping that person of self-dignity and making yourself an unwelcome part of any discussion."

Two thousand years ago, Jesus said: "Agree with thine adversary quickly."

"Be diplomatic. It will help you gain your point." - King Akhtoi of Egypt

In other words, don't argue with your customer or your spouse or your adversary. Don't tell them they are wrong, don't get them stirred up. Use a little diplomacy.

Principle 2: Show respect  for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."

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Nothing is impossible with Him. =D