When someone is stopping you

I think you are being selfish.

Assuming that I won't be able to attend the employment exam is the same as wishing I don't find another job.

Instead of helping me out, you seems like pulling me down.

All things you've said, I took heed. But it should not be forever. If I want change for my life, I should do something. But stopping me to have a better life? It's a different story. It's time for me to choose, between always following you around and achieving my dreams.