Goals

Personal Goals
Furbabies vaccine completion - In-progress (Target Oct 2020)
Master in Management completion in APC - In-progress (Target Nov 2021)
Master of Project Management / Master of Project and Program Management admission in UoS - Planned (Winter 2021)
PP's B&B Inn Lot - Planned (Target June 2021)

Travel Goals
Batanes, Australia, Iceland, Switzerland, Finland, Italy, Netherlands, Germany, Denmark, Sweden, Russia

"Focus on your goals."

I can do all things thru Christ who strengthens me. -Philippians 4:13

Tuesday, March 25, 2025

Let her be

May mga relationships na hindi dapat pinipilit.
Pag pinipilit, hindi magiging maganda ang ending. Hindi kayo magiging masaya.
Sa relationships, need both effort. Pero kung isa lang nag eeffort, hindi balance. Eventually, mapapagod ang isa.

Ma-aadvise ko lang sayo Rove. Take time. Hangga't di pa kayo married or living together, get to know your partner kung kaya mo ba pakisamahan hanggang pagtanda. Get to know yourself kung ganyan klaseng treatment or kind of relationship ang gusto mo. Sa ngayon, wala ka dapat ipilit. Let it flow. Kung mag effort, g. Kung wala pakialam, g. Hayaan mo nalang.

Kung san sya masaya, suportanta sya. God will never leave you nor forsake you. He'll give you the best woman and partner you deserve to be with until the end of time.

Should start choosing myself

I don't know.
Ba't pa ko nagtatagal.
Lagi ko naman sya pinipili. Pero ramdam ko na option nya lang ako.
Magsesettle ba ko sa ganito? Kontento naba ko sa ganitong treatment sakin?
I would like to be treated as priority too.
Kung di nya kaya gawin yun, alam kong meron pang iba dyan na mamahalin ako sa way na gusto ko mahalin ako.
I should not settle for less.

Nagbigay na ko ng deadline sa sarili ko. Sabi ko, 6 months I will do everything. Pero pag wala parin, hahayaan ko na lahat mag drain down. Yung effort at energy ko ay ipapantay ko na sa kung ano ang ibibigay nya sakin.
I should start choosing myself.
I should start loving myself completely.
At hindi nagbebeg si Rove ng attention kahit kanino.
Let her go.
The person who will choose you will soon find you. And you will know eventually kung sino deserve ng time and effort mo.

God will not leave you. God will give you the woman of your life, the one you'll marry and be with till death. Don't worry. Trust Him in all your ways and acknowledge him.

Sunday, March 16, 2025

Don’t push anything

Why people cheat?
Maybe because their partners don't have time for them?
I will not cheat, I'll just go out with a friend who can spend time with me instead.

I told myself many times, I should not chase. I should not waste my time chasing unavailable people. I should not care at all.

I'm not married yet. I still have time to change my mind. I still have time to let go my current relationship that doesn't give me any benefit.

Anyway, let it go. Shrug it off.